The instructions to life we were not given. How it’s all set up. The base of 3 keys

What I see from the majority of authors is either a piece of a system or scattered thoughts about this and that, which cannot be put together into a system.

Someone tries to explain everything only through the way our brain is set up. Some try to fix life through psychology. Some only through goal setting and proactivity.

And I haven’t yet seen anywhere as complete a system as I have.

I looked for it but did not find it in one place. I tried to figure out what was missing to fix my life. I put it together, I made it.

And now I’m making it clearer and better every day.

My system of Anna Bright consists of 3 components – 3 keys.

To live a happy life that you are satisfied with, you have to:

1. Do a conscious MANAGING OF YOUR LIFE

This is:

– building your plans for 1-3-5-10 years, laying out a path to them, making plans for the quarter, the month, the week, goal setting
– working on the basic areas of life – Health, Work, Finance (also Family, Appearance and Сommunication),
– removing the sources of the strongest pressure and stress,
– elaborating on dissatisfaction and “holes” in your life,
– developing the necessary habits one by one,
– optimization of systems,
– removing procrastination,
– working through daily routines, sleeping habits, healthy systems,
– self-stabilization and self-enhancement during the way,
– managing your blocks of the day,

and so on.

In general, building strong systems in your life that work on their own, on automatic.

2. Change your INNER PERSONALITY SETTINGS

Become a more mature person.

Remove and reduce your infantilism and egocentrism. Immaturity is expressed in the fact that you feel, you are not responsible for everything that happens, blame others or circumstances, invent excuses instead of seeking opportunities.


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When you believe that everything will happen as you need “by itself”, dramatize and see your problems and situations as special.

When you depend a lot on other people’s evaluations.

And generally when you “pull the blanket over yourself”. When you don’t see other people and everything is about ME. When you sincerely think that other people should think like you and want the things you want. And many more manifestations of immaturity.

The harmony and permanent gratitude for everything is exactly about maturity. Without it, you will always fail and forget what it is to be grateful for.

A lot of this is about self-reliance, too.

Without working on this point you’ll never get harmonious relationships with yourself, people, the world.

3. Remove or reduce the most destructive ADDICTIONS

An addiction always destroys that area of life (in which it appeared), other areas, the life in general. While you work excessively, your health, family, friendships, relationships, and other areas of life are destroyed.

It’s hard to say which are the most destructive addictions. It all depends on the individual case.

Love addiction or workaholism to a strong degree can be far worse than even alcoholism.

Addictions often cling to one another. Workaholism + coffee addiction can catch alcohol addiction to relax in the evening, addiction to the internet or games to escape the pressure of everything that is going on, to distract from problems.

Addictions relate both to psychology and to the managing of areas of life, but I separate them in order to make a big emphasis and not to lose sight of them. Often one addiction can ruin your whole life, so it should be dealt with in the first place.

Usually, everyone has problems in all three areas.

Somewhere bigger, somewhere smaller.

This is my system by which I work with my life and with people.


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A mistake is usually just some failure of the TEST. It's the result of your experiment, which showed that this option didn't work. So - the next one, the other option. 

Sometimes it confirms your hypothesis. Yes, you thought it wouldn't work. And it didn't. You were right. Let's move on.

"Fail Fast" is a well-known phrase that experts recommend startups adhere to. 

Mistakes are simply NECESSARY for businesses and people to succeed. 

Through the principle of Fail Fast, you will also begin to acquire a kind of "tolerance for failure". They will not be perceived as a problem and scare. 

In business, this principle is used to test hypotheses quickly.

Similar principles:

Fail Early 
Fail Often
Fail Cheap
Learn Fast

Just don't make the same mistakes over and over again )

How many failures and mistakes have you made lately? Many? That's good ) Learn fast.

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  • Whatever, just do your plans! 

It doesn't matter what went wrong yesterday, what you're afraid of, or what you're concerned about in the future. 

Never mind that you're not perfect or ready. 

Doesn't matter what's out of your zone of influence right now. 

Don't care if someone out there is cooler than you. 

Do with a narrow TUNNEL FOCUS exactly what the plan is for the next few hours. Do it flawlessly. Fast. Qualitative. 

Everything else has to be left out.

#justdoit #makeyourplan #focusonyourgoals #annabright
    2 weeks ago
  • "THERE IS A KEY TO EVERY LOCK" – how to find and build a relationship if there is none.

And the first bigger article in the blog is this one.

If you’re not in a relationship right now, stop worrying. Finding or building a relationship is easier than it seems.
 
The 8-step algorithm. 

It looks quite obvious in some places. But it was not so obvious at all - to put this system together after not understanding - what to do?

Read it here: 👇👇
https://gettingclose.net/howto-find-build-relationship
(the link is in bio)

Step 8. Well, if you can’t do the relationship-building right now for some reason or don’t have time, then forget it for some time. Whatever.

You can be very happy without it, every day.

Everything appears “by itself” as long as you enjoy life. And the relationship will also appear “by itself”, suddenly.

You can’t build a happy relationship if you’re bored alone with yourself or unhappy. You have to come to love everything in your world, in your life inside out.

You can start traveling (or make it possible in your life). Maybe meet someone in other places.

Imagine, there are billions of people around the world. Of course, there will be someone who needs someone exactly like you. Of course! How else could it be?! “There is a key to every lock”.

In short, stop being obsessed. And if you want something, then act, change, evolve )

#theresakeytoeverylock #relationships #howtofindlove #annabright
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MISTAKES ARE COMMON AND GOOD 

A mistake is usually just some failure of the TEST. It's the result of your experiment, which showed that this option didn't work. So - the next one, the other option. 

Sometimes it confirms your hypothesis. Yes, you thought it wouldn't work. And it didn't. You were right. Let's move on.

"Fail Fast" is a well-known phrase that experts recommend startups adhere to. 

Mistakes are simply NECESSARY for businesses and people to succeed. 

Through the principle of Fail Fast, you will also begin to acquire a kind of "tolerance for failure". They will not be perceived as a problem and scare. 

In business, this principle is used to test hypotheses quickly.

Similar principles:

Fail Early 
Fail Often
Fail Cheap
Learn Fast

Just don't make the same mistakes over and over again )

How many failures and mistakes have you made lately? Many? That's good ) Learn fast.

#failfast #failoften #failcheap #learnfast #mistakes #failures
MISTAKES ARE COMMON AND GOOD A mistake is usually just some failure of the TEST. It's the result of your experiment, which showed that this option didn't work. So - the next one, the other option. Sometimes it confirms your hypothesis. Yes, you thought it wouldn't work. And it didn't. You were right. Let's move on. "Fail Fast" is a well-known phrase that experts recommend startups adhere to. Mistakes are simply NECESSARY for businesses and people to succeed. Through the principle of Fail Fast, you will also begin to acquire a kind of "tolerance for failure". They will not be perceived as a problem and scare. In business, this principle is used to test hypotheses quickly. Similar principles: Fail Early Fail Often Fail Cheap Learn Fast Just don't make the same mistakes over and over again ) How many failures and mistakes have you made lately? Many? That's good ) Learn fast. #failfast #failoften #failcheap #learnfast #mistakes #failures
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Whatever, just do your plans! 

It doesn't matter what went wrong yesterday, what you're afraid of, or what you're concerned about in the future. 

Never mind that you're not perfect or ready. 

Doesn't matter what's out of your zone of influence right now. 

Don't care if someone out there is cooler than you. 

Do with a narrow TUNNEL FOCUS exactly what the plan is for the next few hours. Do it flawlessly. Fast. Qualitative. 

Everything else has to be left out.

#justdoit #makeyourplan #focusonyourgoals #annabright
Whatever, just do your plans! It doesn't matter what went wrong yesterday, what you're afraid of, or what you're concerned about in the future. Never mind that you're not perfect or ready. Doesn't matter what's out of your zone of influence right now. Don't care if someone out there is cooler than you. Do with a narrow TUNNEL FOCUS exactly what the plan is for the next few hours. Do it flawlessly. Fast. Qualitative. Everything else has to be left out. #justdoit #makeyourplan #focusonyourgoals #annabright
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"THERE IS A KEY TO EVERY LOCK" – how to find and build a relationship if there is none.

And the first bigger article in the blog is this one.

If you’re not in a relationship right now, stop worrying. Finding or building a relationship is easier than it seems.
 
The 8-step algorithm. 

It looks quite obvious in some places. But it was not so obvious at all - to put this system together after not understanding - what to do?

Read it here: 👇👇
https://gettingclose.net/howto-find-build-relationship
(the link is in bio)

Step 8. Well, if you can’t do the relationship-building right now for some reason or don’t have time, then forget it for some time. Whatever.

You can be very happy without it, every day.

Everything appears “by itself” as long as you enjoy life. And the relationship will also appear “by itself”, suddenly.

You can’t build a happy relationship if you’re bored alone with yourself or unhappy. You have to come to love everything in your world, in your life inside out.

You can start traveling (or make it possible in your life). Maybe meet someone in other places.

Imagine, there are billions of people around the world. Of course, there will be someone who needs someone exactly like you. Of course! How else could it be?! “There is a key to every lock”.

In short, stop being obsessed. And if you want something, then act, change, evolve )

#theresakeytoeverylock #relationships #howtofindlove #annabright
"THERE IS A KEY TO EVERY LOCK" – how to find and build a relationship if there is none. And the first bigger article in the blog is this one. If you’re not in a relationship right now, stop worrying. Finding or building a relationship is easier than it seems. The 8-step algorithm. It looks quite obvious in some places. But it was not so obvious at all - to put this system together after not understanding - what to do? Read it here: 👇👇 https://gettingclose.net/howto-find-build-relationship (the link is in bio) Step 8. Well, if you can’t do the relationship-building right now for some reason or don’t have time, then forget it for some time. Whatever. You can be very happy without it, every day. Everything appears “by itself” as long as you enjoy life. And the relationship will also appear “by itself”, suddenly. You can’t build a happy relationship if you’re bored alone with yourself or unhappy. You have to come to love everything in your world, in your life inside out. You can start traveling (or make it possible in your life). Maybe meet someone in other places. Imagine, there are billions of people around the world. Of course, there will be someone who needs someone exactly like you. Of course! How else could it be?! “There is a key to every lock”. In short, stop being obsessed. And if you want something, then act, change, evolve ) #theresakeytoeverylock #relationships #howtofindlove #annabright
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